Are You Doing The Things You Want To Do? or The Things You Think You Should Do?

The things that you want to do usually depend on the kind of friends you have, the type of background living and various factors. While the things you should do are the things you decide by yourself by the present condition and situation. It is the thing that can get you out from your current situation to a better one. But we usually fail to know what that thing is and what you should do and get into the things you want to do. It’s much like mental tug of war in which you are fighting with your temptations. The thing which will come in your way are the thing you want to do it comes with an excitement it brings joy to you and then there will be things to you have to do today that you know you should do, and you just don’t want to do.

So what do you think which is more important? The things you want to do or the things you should do? These both are like the two wings of plane as if you stop doing the things you want to do then your growth will stop the place where you are right now is because of you actions, and if you start doing the things that you should do then you get all the remaining time to do the things you want to do.

Do you fell sometimes that when someone else ask us for some advice we give them the best advice to help them out from that situation but when the same situation comes on us in life we are not able to implement it. This is because of the things we know that we should do but we don’t want to. To relate it in out practical life when someone ask us for a advise related to studies we give them a full tight schedule even if we are not following it. It is still right according to the things we think he should do, but when we come to college, we tend to generate a mindset of studying less, going out with friends, playing games and a lot more and finally at exam time the last moment studies.

Even this is a perfect thing to do according to many students but luck doesn’t works as you want it to work if you fail once in the exam at that time you realize that WHAT IF….. I had studied a little but more, I haven’t played those games and a million of things you can blame yourself. But really do you think that blaming yourself now will make any difference?

What most of the people don’t think about is what should they do irrespective to what they want to. Who doesn’t like to do the things they want to do.!! But you can’t do that things all the time there are plenty of things that you should do so that you can move further in your life. The moment when you thinking of what you want to do will be same as the things you should do will open up you gate for opportunities and success.